Navigating the World of Mansplaining

Anubha Saxena
2 min readApr 9, 2024

In an age where information is at our fingertips, some prefer the old-fashioned method of imparting wisdom: unsolicited and often inaccurate. Welcome to the world of mansplaining, where no woman is safe from being told something she already knows by a man who maybe just discovered it yesterday.

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The Breakfast Epiphany

Imagine starting your day with a healthy breakfast, only to have someone explain the benefits of avocados — while you’re making an avocado toast. It’s not just about the avocado; it’s a metaphor for your daily dose of unsolicited advice, served fresh by the Mansplainer Supreme. 🤣

The Mechanic Mirage

There you are, under the hood of your car, a wrench in hand, only to be approached by a passerby insisting you’re using the wrong tool. ️Never mind that you’ve rebuilt engines more times than they’ve pumped gas. In the land of mansplaining, experience is just a background prop. 🛠

The Tech Trap

The world of technology isn’t safe either. Mention you work in IT, and suddenly you’re in a lecture on basic computing that feels more like a time warp to the 90s. 🖥 ️Yes, thank you, we’ve all heard of rebooting.

The Mansplaining Flowchart

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But Why the Woe?

Mansplaining doesn’t just patronize the person on the receiving end; it perpetuates a cycle where men are seen as the default experts, and women’s knowledge and experiences are undervalued. 😮 This isn’t just annoying — it’s harmful. It reinforces stereotypes, hinders productive communication, and stifles women’s voices in professional and personal spaces.

For men, the stereotype that they must always be the expert is equally damaging. It puts pressure on them to always have the answers and discourages them from admitting when they don’t, limiting their learning opportunities and emotional growth. 💁🏻‍♂️

So, What Can We Do?

The antidote to mansplaining isn’t silence; it’s dialogue. It’s about creating spaces where everyone feels heard and valued for their contributions. It’s about asking, “Would you like to know more about this?” instead of assuming ignorance. 💬

In the grand scheme of things, mansplaining isn’t the worst problem we face, but it’s a symptom of larger issues of gender inequality and communication breakdown. So, to the mansplainers out there, we appreciate your enthusiasm, but maybe, just this once, let’s listen.

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Anubha Saxena

Co-Founder of @thebanyantee 👕 Smashing glass ceilings 🔨🚀 Feminist | Equality Advocate 👭❤️ Digital Artist 🖱️ Logophile 📖 Melomaniac 🎧 35 Under 35 🏆